Mary Astell, Some Reflections upon Marriage (ed. prin. 1700)
Genre: an essay.
Form: prose.
Characters: "men" and "women" in general, as Astell represents her C17 understanding of their genders' attributes and beliefs.
Summary: Happy marriages are few, she asserts, because the way the institution operates in her England, money (income) is the primary qualification for most of them, with no thought for emotional compatibility, and poverty resulting from a "love match" renders the other sort miserable. Men who marry for love are irregular, by definition, especially if they admire their spouses for wit, a term she criticizes as having fallen into being "bitter and ill-natured raillery" (2422) rather than "true wit," "such a sprightliness of imagination, such a reach and turn of thought, so properly expressed, as strikes and pleases a judicious taste" (2422). She dismisses intense passion as unstable and no good grounds for a long-term relationship.
Women's lack of choice in marriage especially irritates Astell. Men who flatter them with praise while seeking their favor make them foolish (cf. Astrophil). Women who can't find a husband are thought incompetent and no man can imagine himself not worthy of being any woman's suitor. Learned women are mocked by the world at large, whereas men not uncommonly waste their time in pursuit of their lusts. Women who sacrifice themselves to submission to a man are heroic in their self-control and in their service to God and mankind, but if they thought about it more carefully, they probably would not do it. Hence, the number of women who marry in haste.
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